Dear Empowered Reader,
Thank you for taking a few minutes of your day for a fish story!
What began as a simple wish for a pet evolved into a story of perseverance, creativity, and responsibility.
A few weeks ago, I experienced a wonderful moment with my nieces that I believe holds meaningful teaching points for us all. It began with receiving a text from their mom, one of my sisters.
She shared that my nieces would like to set up a video chat. I never turn down an opportunity to talk with my nieces (ages range from 2 to 12). We set up a time to chat. I looked forward to the conversation as I never quite know what will develop during our video chats.
A few hours later I heard the ring of my video call, when I answered the call , all I can hear is “WE GOT A FISH!!” my nieces were so excited to tell me about their first pet. Now why am I sharing their excitement with you? It has to do with the events leading up to this
moment.
My nieces have wanted a pet for several years. First came conversations about adopting a dog, that was immediately vetoed by my sister and her husband. Then came conversations about adopting a cat, but that too was vetoed. Then my oldest niece asked for a fish, this was not
immediately vetoed but received an “we’ll think about it” from my sister and brother-in-law.
After a few more years of asking about the fish my oldest niece and one of her sisters developed a presentation about fish care and reasons why owning a fish would be good for them and their sisters. I saw the presentation myself and was convinced! However, my sister and her
husband were unsure about taking on a fish's additional responsibility.
Next, my nieces began to demonstrate how responsible they could be by acting out certain scenarios that could occur when owning a fish. My sister and brother-in-law still said, “We will have to think about it”. Then my nieces had the idea to fundraise for a fish, asking
their mother, if we can pay for it then can we get a fish” The same response came, “We will have to think about it”.
However, my nieces would not be detoured. They got creative and earned over $100 selling homemade cookies at a Bake/Craft Fair. Once they had the cash they approached my sister again, “Now can we get a fish?” once again they were told, “We will have to think about it”. Little
did my nieces know that my sisters and I were buying all the supplies needed to get our nieces a fish.
A few weeks after the bake sale, my nieces received the good news, they were going to get a fish!
Back to the video chat, my nieces were so excited to share they were going to get a fish, and not only that they were going to get two snails! In the end, due to their perseverance, they now have two fish and two snails as their first pets.
Teaching Points:
Perseverance and Resilience: My nieces demonstrated unwavering perseverance over several years. Despite initial rejections of the idea of adopting a pet, they persisted, adapting their approach and continually seeking ways to realize their dream.
Creativity in Problem-Solving: In their pursuit, my nieces showcased creativity by developing a presentation on fish care, presenting reasons why owning a fish would benefit them. Additionally, their entrepreneurial spirit led them to successfully fundraise for their pet project through a Bake/Craft
Fair.
Responsibility and Teamwork: Through role-playing scenarios and fundraising efforts, my nieces showcased responsibility and teamwork. They took ownership of the potential challenges that come with pet ownership and worked together towards a common goal.
Reflection Questions:
What dreams or goals have you pursued with unwavering determination, and what lessons did you learn in the process?
How can creativity play a role in overcoming obstacles and finding innovative solutions in your own life?
Reflect on a situation where responsibility and teamwork were crucial. How did collaboration contribute to the success of the endeavor?
As we navigate our paths, let's draw inspiration from the resilience, creativity, and responsibility demonstrated by my nieces. May their fish tale serve as a reminder that with determination and a creative spirit, we can overcome obstacles and create a fulfilling journey
toward well-being.
Have a "fish story" to share? I would love to hear it, email me at info@empowerpossible.com.
Wishing you joy and inspiration, Julie |