Dear Empowered Reader,
As we reach the eighth month of the year I find myself reflecting on the profound importance of celebration. For me, this year, more than ever, has been marked by many milestones, 40th and 50th birthday celebrations, several anniversaries, new roles, a few goodbyes, and transformative experiences. These moments, whether personal or professional, are not just markers of time but are opportunities to pause, reflect, and honor the journey.
In my roles as a change manager, well-being specialist and through my personal experience I have learned about the importance of celebration. One of the steps in Change Management processes is to plan celebrations for small and big milestones.
Celebration is a regenerative act. It replenishes our energy, deepens our sense of belonging, and reminds us of our capacity for joy. According to Chip and Dan Heath, authors of The Power of Moments, celebrations are “defining moments”—experiences that elevate our spirits, deepen our connections, and create lasting memories. These moments give shape to our lives, transforming ordinary days into extraordinary ones.
Dan Heath’s research on “bright spots” highlights the importance of celebration. Our brains are naturally wired to focus on problems, what’s broken, what’s missing, what needs fixing. However, when we intentionally seek out and celebrate what’s working, those bright spots, we shift our perspective from one of scarcity to one of abundance. This practice not only boosts our motivation and resilience but also inspires those around us to believe in the possibility of positive change.
“Celebrations are the punctuation marks of our lives. They give us permission to pause, reflect, and savor the journey.” Chip & Dan Heath
For example, with the celebration of a milestone birthday, I wanted to make space for reflection and building connections. One of my favorite ways to reflect is through the Mountain 10 process. I decided to lead a couple of Mountain 10 retreats in order to slow down, to listen deeply, build community, and refect on what do I want right now. The Mountain 10 retreat was not just a pause from routine, but a celebration of being present, alive, and open to possibility.
Another milestone that stands out for me this year is approaching my first anniversary as Change Manager/Planning Director. Stepping into this role was both exciting and nerve-racking. The responsibilities were significant: developing and implementing change management strategies for an entire State agency, supporting communication efforts, assessing change impact, and guiding teams through transitions. When I felt unsure, I reminded myself about the heart of the role. It is about topics I study and implement every day, which are helping individuals and teams navigate uncertainty, build resilience, and embrace new ways of working.
The first few months were a whirlwind of learning, listening, and adapting. There were moments when the path forward seemed unclear. Yet, as I reflect on this milestone, I am struck by the bright spots, the small victories that often go unnoticed. I remember the first time a team member shared how our new communication plan made them feel more included and valued. I recall the collective relief when a challenging project reached a successful conclusion, thanks to the dedication and collaboration of so many.
To celebrate this milestone, I organized a virtual gathering with my team. Instead of focusing solely on outcomes, we shared stories of growth, resilience, and the ways we had supported one another. We named our bright spots, acknowledged challenges, and expressed gratitude for the journey. That celebration reinforced for me that milestones are not just about personal achievement, but about the communities we build and the lives we touch along the way.
Celebration is not a distraction from the work of regeneration; it is essential to it. By pausing to honor our milestones, we create space for reflection, gratitude, and renewed purpose. Dan Heath’s concept of “bright spots” is especially relevant: by shining a light on what’s working, we foster a culture of possibility and hope. Celebrating milestones, whether personal or professional, helps us build confidence, foster connection, and inspire others to believe in their potential.
In the world of well-being and change, this is especially true. My role is to guide people through transitions, to help them see not just the challenges but the opportunities for growth and renewal. Celebrating progress, no matter how incremental, builds momentum and resilience. It reminds us that every step forward is worth honoring.
An Affirmation for This Season I honor every milestone, large or small, as a testament to my growth, regeneration, and capacity for joy. I celebrate my journey and the bright spots that light my path.
Reflection Questions What milestone, personal or professional, are you most proud of this year, and how did you choose to celebrate it? (If you have not celebrated, how will you? )
Where have you noticed “bright spots” in your life or work that deserve acknowledgment and celebration?
How can you create more intentional moments of celebration for yourself and those around you in the months ahead? Ideas include: Plan a celebration meal with a friend or family member Visit your favorite shop or place in the city you live in Review your journal for moments of joy and savor them Take a personal day Create a celebration playlist
Closing Thoughts As we move through this milestone-rich year, I encourage you to pause and celebrate, not just the big achievements, but the small victories, the acts of courage, and the moments of connection. Whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, or the quiet accomplishment of a personal goal, each milestone is a reminder of your capacity to regenerate, to grow, and to inspire others.
Let’s continue to multiply our bright spots, honor our journeys, and celebrate the milestones together.
Do you have a celebration you want to recognize? Please share! info@empowerpossible.com
With gratitude and celebration, Julie Zaruba Fountaine Founder, Empower Possible
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