Dear Empowered Reader,
If you’ve been following the Regenerate Your World Newsletter, you know that the past few months have brought significant changes for me—moving to a new city and starting a new chapter in my career. Just six months ago, my husband and I packed up our lives in Duluth, MN, and embarked on an unexpected journey to Northfield, MN. A year ago, I couldn’t have imagined leaving Duluth. The idea of leaving our friends, our outdoor lifestyle, and the comfort and familiarity of Duluth were hard to let go of. Yet, this leap of faith has brought opportunities, growth, and connections that I never anticipated—and for which I am deeply grateful.
One of the most surprising blessings has been the professional opportunities that opened up after the move. Shortly after settling into Northfield, a friend forwarded me a job posting for a Change Management Coordinator and Planning Director role. Back in Duluth, the position would have been out of reach—literally and figuratively. The commute to St. Paul, over two hours away, would have made it impossible. But in Northfield, St. Paul is less than an hour’s drive, and suddenly, the position felt within reach.
At first, I hesitated to apply. It was outside my comfort zone—a leap into the unknown. But taking that step has been transformative. This role has aligned with my passions, expanded my perspectives, and brought professional fulfillment I hadn’t expected. Reflecting on this decision, I’m reminded of John A. Shedd’s words: “A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.” Leaving the safe harbor of Duluth allowed me to navigate new waters, full of both challenges and rewards.
Moving closer to family has been another unexpected gift. I’ve cherished the precious moments spent with my father-in-law during his time in hospice—moments of connection and gratitude that I’ll carry with me forever. I’ve also had the chance to deepen relationships with my parents, three sisters, and close friends who now live just around the corner. These relationships have anchored me through this transition, filling my days with laughter, meaningful conversations, and small but significant moments I didn’t realize I had been missing.
Still, there are things I miss about Duluth: the calming presence of Lake Superior, the friendly faces I’d see on every errand, and the comfort of a close-knit community. Change doesn’t erase the connections or memories of where we’ve been—it adds layers to our journey. Regular visits and phone calls with friends in Duluth remind me that while I’ve left the harbor, the anchor points of my past remain. Maya Angelou said it best: “You can’t really know where you are going until you know where you have been.”
As I reflect on these past six months, the changing seasons have mirrored my own transition. The Winter Solstice, which marked the longest night of the year, is a time of reflection and renewal. It symbolizes leaving behind the light of what was familiar to embrace the unknown, only to find that the light returns—brighter and fuller than before. This season invites us to pause, acknowledge our growth, and welcome new beginnings with open hearts.
Reflection Questions for You: - What recent changes in your life have pushed you out of your comfort zone?
- How have you deepened connections with the people around you?
- Which aspects of your past do you cherish as you embrace the possibilities of the future?
An Affirmation for You: I am resilient and open to change. I honor my past while embracing the possibilities of my future.
In this season of transition, I am reminded of the importance of finding harmony—between the old and the new, the familiar and the unfamiliar, the challenging and the comforting. In the Art of Hosting practice, this harmony is captured by the two-loop model: for a new system to emerge, the old system must compost or transform.
Like the Solstice, this season of change invites us all to seek harmony in the contrasts of life. Thank you for being part of this journey with me. May this season bring you peace, clarity, and renewal.
Take Care Dear Reader, Julie
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