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Cultivating Gratitude: Even When It Is Hard To Do

My everyday mantra

A photo along a very distant shore from a past vacation that I am very grateful for.

 

Dear Empowered Reader,


The topic of this newsletter resonates deeply with the ebb and flow of our lives—gratitude. It's easy to express thankfulness when life is smooth sailing, but what about those moments when gratitude seems elusive? How can we cultivate it even in the midst of challenges?


Recently, I found myself facing a series of unexpected setbacks. I had several family members receive challenging medical diagnoses, including a terminal diagnosis. The weight of these difficulties made it difficult for me to see the silver linings, let alone feel grateful. In the midst of this struggle, I realized the profound impact that intentional gratitude practices can have on our well-being.


My Gratitude Journey: A Personal Reflection


During these particularly challenging past few months, I decided to commit to a daily gratitude journal. The first few entries felt forced, almost mechanical, as if I was going through the motions without truly feeling the gratitude. I grappled with the question: How can I be grateful when everything seems to be falling apart?


Then, a subtle shift occurred. One evening, as I sat down to write, I found myself acknowledging the small moments of joy that had managed to pierce through the darkness. The warmth of a comforting cup of tea, the support of a friend's kind words, and the beauty of the North Shore—all seemingly insignificant, yet collectively powerful.


It dawned on me that gratitude doesn't always have to be grand or profound. It can be found in the smallest, simplest moments, even in the midst of challenges. It's a perspective shift—an intentional focus on the positive aspects of our lives, no matter how minute they may seem.


Practical Steps to Cultivate Gratitude, Even in Difficult Times


Start Small:

Begin by acknowledging the small joys in your daily life. It could be the aroma of your morning coffee, the feeling of sunlight on your face, or a genuine smile from a stranger. These small moments, when acknowledged, can become seeds of gratitude.


Daily Gratitude Journaling:

Set aside a few minutes each day to jot down three things you're thankful for. Be specific and detailed. This practice encourages mindfulness and helps shift your focus from what's lacking to what's present.


Connect with Others:

Share your gratitude with friends or family. Expressing appreciation not only strengthens your relationships but also reinforces the positive aspects of your life.


Gratitude in Adversity:

Challenge yourself to find gratitude even in challenging situations. What lessons are you learning? How are you growing? Often, adversity becomes a catalyst for personal development.


Reflective Questions for Your Gratitude Journey:


What small moments of joy have you overlooked recently? Take a moment to reflect on the simple pleasures that bring a sense of positivity to your life.


How can you reframe a current challenge as an opportunity for growth? Sometimes, gratitude emerges from the lessons learned during difficult times.


Who or what are you grateful for today? Consider reaching out to express your appreciation and deepen your connections. Connections to our pets, the trees, and other elements of nature count too!


Remember, cultivating gratitude is a practice—a journey rather than a destination. Even in the darkest moments, there's always a glimmer of light waiting to be acknowledged.


Wishing you a week filled with moments of gratitude and self-discovery.


Take Care, Dear Reader,

Julie

Founder, Empower Possible

A photo of a sunrise I am grateful for along the North Shore.

 
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A Life Full of Gratitude
Poet: Catherine Pulsifer, ©2020

May my life be full of gratitude

May it be shown in my attitude

By the way that I act

And with any and all contacts.
Let my appreciation showExpressing it quickly not too slow

For those who have helped me along

Even when I was stubborn and wrong.
May the kindness that was shown to me

Be kindness that I return so easy

May I always lend a hand

To a child, woman, or man.
You see a life of gratitude is one

That makes you appreciate all that is done.

You count your blessings every day

From the time you are young until you are gray.

 
 

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Besides posting on my own social media I also collaborate with other entrepreneurs. This week I am going to throw back to the Lead from Within Podcast as we discuss the myths of happiness and well-being.


Interested in catching up on our previous podcast episodes? We invite you to explore our library of past recordings, where we delve into a diverse range of topics related to happiness and well-being.

https://empowerpossible.com/podcasts/ 

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