Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Insider Insights: Celebrating Three Years

 

 

October 16, 2024

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Insider Insights: Celebrating Three Years

Three-year celebration! Happy birthday Empower Possible!

 

Dear Empowered Reader,

I can hardly believe it—it’s been three years since I took the leap and launched Empower Possible! What started as a dream fueled by my own experiences of burnout turned into a passion for helping people find harmony in their hectic lives and blossomed into something more meaningful than I could have imagined. Today, I’m reflecting on how much we’ve grown together, and I feel overwhelming gratitude for this incredible journey.


When I first started Empower Possible, it was just me, an idea, and much hope. I had a vision, but I wasn’t sure how it would unfold. Those early days were filled with excitement and, yes, plenty of uncertainty. I wondered if anyone would join me on this mission to build a life where wellness wasn’t just a goal, but a daily practice. And then, slowly but surely, you did. We began planting seeds of change together, and now here we are—a community that has turned wellness into something real, practical, and transformative.


I’ll never forget the first workshop I hosted. I was nervous, hoping it would resonate with the attendees, but I quickly realized that this wasn’t just about me teaching—it was about us learning from each other. Each one of you has shared something that’s impacted me deeply—your stories, your challenges, your moments of growth. They’ve become the foundation of Empower Possible, reminding me every day why I started this in the first place.


Let me share one pivotal moment with you. It was about six months after launching Empower Possible, and I was feeling a sense of burnout creeping in again. Yes, even after all my efforts to create harmony, I realized I wasn’t following the advice I was giving. My calendar was overbooked, and I had little time for personal regeneration. One weekend, I decided to take a solo hike in the woods—a place I’ve always gone to recharge. I left my phone in the car and immersed myself in nature. As I walked, I reflected on what truly mattered to me and made a promise to myself: I would not lose sight of the well-being practices I had worked so hard to instill. That hike became a turning point, reminding me that regeneration is not a one-time event but a continuous practice that requires attention and intention. It was a lesson that shaped how I lead Empower Possible and serve this community today.


I’d love for you to take a moment and reflect on your journey.


Think back to three years ago—where were you in your well-being journey compared to today?


What have you discovered about yourself, your habits, or your mindset that has helped you grow?


And most importantly, how can you continue to prioritize your own well-being as you move forward into the next chapter of your life?


For me, these three years have reinforced one powerful truth: transformation is never easy, but it is always worth it. Every step forward, no matter how small, gets us closer to a life that feels aligned with who we truly are. There were moments when I wasn’t sure I was moving in the right direction—moments when doubt crept in—but every time, this community reminded me of the importance of persistence and the beauty of progress.


Another experience that profoundly shaped my approach to well-being came just last year. I was in the middle of preparing for a big keynote speech, and, once again, I found myself stretched thin. I decided to plan a small day retreat with a couple of friends.  I was hesitant to take time away however I knew how important it is to rest and recharge. During that day away, I had the chance to unplug, take a long walk in the woods, and just "be". It wasn’t until I slowed down that I realized how much I had been running on empty. That experience reminded me of the power of rest and reflection, and how essential they are for regeneration. It’s a lesson I now incorporate into every facet of my life and work—recognizing that regeneration comes from giving ourselves space to breathe, reflect, and recharge. Without it, we cannot sustain our well-being.


One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from you is that we never have to walk this path alone. I’ve seen firsthand how the connections we’ve built here are the cornerstone of personal growth. Each of you has shown me the incredible strength that comes from having a village—a support system that celebrates our wins, picks us up after setbacks, and reminds us of our power.


Speaking of power, I want to share a quote about power: “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” – Alice Walker. This hits home because it’s the core of what Empower Possible is all about—helping you remember that you already have the power to shape your life, your well-being, and your future. The small, daily choices you make? They add up, and they are so much more impactful than we often realize. Don’t underestimate the power of those little steps—they can lead to life-changing transformations.


As I look ahead, I’m excited for what’s to come. I have new programs and opportunities on the horizon—whether it’s diving deeper into our Mountain 10 workshops, new podcast guest appearances, or continuing to connect through these newsletters. 


There’s so much more we can accomplish together, and I can’t wait to see where this journey takes us.


Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being part of this community. Empower Possible wouldn’t be what it is without each of you.


Here’s to many more years of growth, empowerment, and well-being!


With heartfelt gratitude,  


Julie Zaruba Fountaine  

Founder, Empower Possible

 

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Still I Rise by Maya Angelou

 

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
’Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.
Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don’t you take it awful hard
’Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

From And Still I Rise by Maya Angelou. Copyright © 1978 by Maya Angelou.

 

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Monday, September 30, 2024

The Power of Naming Things to Reframe One's Perspective

 

 

September 30, 2024

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The Power of Naming Things to Reframe One's Perspective

Dear Empowered Reader,


Happy Fall! 

We are now officially a little over a week into Fall. I have written about change and transition a lot over the past few newsletters as this has been a topic I have been experiencing as I moved to a new city and prepared to enter a new season in life. 

I have highlighted many different aspects of change including, learning new things, practicing gratitude for the lessons change teaching us, finding joy and how to embrace change.
However, one crucial topic I haven't yet explored is what happens when our perception of the world holds us back from making a change. This realization struck me when my sister, Joan Oen, shared a recent experience in our family group chat about how she shifted her perspective. Her insight immediately resonated with me, and I knew it needed to be featured in an upcoming edition of the Empower Possible Newsletter. After reaching out to Joan, she graciously agreed to let me share her story with you.
As we continue to navigate through change and transition, it's important to remember that our perception of the world can significantly impact our ability to embrace change. Often, the way we see the world can create barriers that prevent us from moving forward. By shifting our perspective and opening our minds to new possibilities, we can overcome the fear and resistance that often accompany change.
It's also crucial to practice self-compassion and patience with ourselves as we adapt to new circumstances. Change can be challenging, and it's easy to be hard on ourselves when things don't go as planned. However, by embracing change as an opportunity for growth and learning, we can transform these challenges into stepping stones toward a more fulfilling and empowered life.
As we settle into the fall season, let's challenge ourselves to see change as a positive force and a chance to create the life we truly desire. By consciously shifting our perspective, we can unlock new opportunities and experiences that lead to personal and professional growth. Embracing change with an open heart and mind can pave the way for a brighter, more fulfilling future. Joan did a wonderful job of highlighting what can you do if your perception of the world is what is holding you back from making a change.

Here is what she shared:

 

Crickets freak me out. As a kid, their chirps in my basement bedroom taunted me, making me fear an imminent attack from their agile black-shelled bodies. Fast forward to now; there’s a very vocal cricket in my garage. Every time I enter, it calls to me from its invisible hiding place. At first, it brought back my childhood fears of unpredictable jumping bugs. Then I decided to name it Jiminy–thank you, Disney. Now I compliment Jiminy on his pretty chirping and thank him for greeting me. Through the magic of Disney and a shift in my perspective, the unseen cricket no longer bothers me. In fact, I kind of like Jiminy. He seems like a good listener and his ability to carry a consistent tune is impressive.

 

As I reflected on Joan's words I thought "The Power of Naming Things to Reframe One's Perspective" can lead to a reflection on my thoughts. Some helpful questions I will be reflection on listed below. I hope you take a moment to reflect on them as well.


1. What labels or names have you given to your current challenges or feelings? How might renaming them with a more empowering term shift your perspective and approach?


2. Think of a recent situation where you felt stuck or overwhelmed. If you could give that experience a new name that reflects a positive lesson or opportunity, what would it be?


3. How do the words and labels you use to describe your daily experiences influence your mindset? What new names could you adopt to create a more harmonious and hopeful outlook?

Thank you to Joan for sharing your story and inspiring this newsletter. For our readers, here is a little more about Joan. 

Joan Oen is a free-lance writer with a teacher’s heart who is fully embracing a season of change and lives by the motto “Keep Moving Forward”. She writes poetry, creative nonfiction, fiction, and essays. Joan has four stories published in the Chicken Soup for the Soul series: “That’s What Moms Are For” in The Magic of Mothers and Daughters, 2012; “What Would I Do Without You?” in Devotional Stories for Wives, 2013; “Comrade in Arms” in The Dog Did What?, 2014; “Absolutely Worth It” in The Magic of Dogs, 2020.  Joan has a Bachelor’s degree in Communication/Literature Education grades 5-12 and a Master of Arts in Human Development from St. Mary’s University of Minnesota. You can reach her at oenjoan@gmail.com.

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This newsletter contains content that has been modified and inspired by ChatGPT, an AI language model developed by OpenAI. While we use ChatGPT to enhance our content, it should not be considered professional advice. For specific concerns or decisions, please consult with a qualified professional or trusted source. The newsletter authors are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information provided by or inspired by ChatGPT.

Tuesday, September 17, 2024

The Power of Daily Habits

 

 

September 17, 2024

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The Power of Daily Habits

One of my daily habits is to get moving! Biking is a favorite way for me to get moving.

Dear Empowered Reader,


As we transition into fall, there's a natural shift in energy and rhythm. The days of summer give way to a more structured routine as the school year begins, even those of us without children are impacted by the changing schedules of friends, family, and colleagues. This period is an excellent opportunity to reset, recharge, and create sustainable daily habits that will carry us through the season with vitality and balance.


I decided to focus this newsletter on daily habits. Why focus on daily habits? Daily habits are the foundation of our overall well-being. They are the small, consistent actions we take each day that contribute to our physical, mental, and emotional health. As we prepare to enter the fall season, it's essential to establish routines that align with the season's demands and rhythms.

 In the last few newsletters I mentioned how to enjoy the last weeks of summer and learning something new, this newsletter prepares us for fall.

Whether it's adjusting your sleep schedule, incorporating seasonal foods into your diet, or finding time for reflection and goal-setting, these habits can help you stay grounded and energized.

This fall, I’ve decided to focus on incorporating more mindfulness into my daily routine. I noticed that my mornings often felt rushed and stressful, which set a negative tone for the rest of the day. By committing to just five minutes of deep breathing or meditation each morning, I’ve been able to start my day with a clearer mind and a more positive outlook.


Reflection Question:

- What small change could you make in your morning routine that would have a positive impact on your day?


This leads to building daily habits. How do we build daily habits? The key to creating sustainable habits is to start small. Instead of overhauling your entire routine, focus on one or two areas where you'd like to see improvement. For example, if you want to prioritize your morning routine, start by waking up 15 minutes earlier to allow time for a short meditation or a quick stretch. Over time, these small changes will become second nature, making it easier to build on them.

Begin with a morning habit, like drinking a glass of water right after waking up. This seemingly small action can set a positive tone for the rest of your day and lead to further healthy choices.

A few years ago when a friend wanted to increase their physical activity but struggled to find the time. I suggested we walk together by taking a 10-minute walk during our lunch break. It seemed insignificant at first, but as it became part of their routine, they found themselves gradually increasing the time and eventually incorporating longer walks and other forms of exercise into their week.


Reflection Question:

- What is one small, manageable habit you can introduce this fall to improve your well-being?


You have decided your habit now what? It's time to track your progress this will help you to stay motivated.

Tracking your progress is a powerful tool for maintaining motivation. Whether you use a journal, an app, or a simple checklist, documenting your habits can help you stay accountable and see how far you've come. As you track your progress, you'll also identify patterns and make adjustments as needed. Every once in awhile review your checklists to see how far you have come!

Example: Create a habit tracker that includes your daily goals, such as exercise, mindfulness, hydration, and sleep. Review your progress weekly to celebrate your successes and make any necessary adjustments.

I’ve found that using a simple habit-tracking journal has made a huge difference in sticking to my new routines. By checking off my daily habits, like drinking enough water or getting outside for fresh air, I feel a sense of accomplishment that motivates me to keep going, even on tough days. 


Reflection Question:

- How can you track your progress to stay motivated and accountable for your new habits?


Fall is a season of change and preparation, making it an ideal time to establish new habits. The cooling temperatures and shorter days naturally encourage us to slow down and focus inward. Use this seasonal energy to your advantage by creating routines that reflect the fall's themes of grounding and balance.

Incorporate seasonal activities like walks in the crisp autumn air, enjoying warm, nourishing meals, or practicing gratitude as the year winds down. These habits can help you feel more connected to the season and your well-being.

Every fall, I make it a point to spend time outdoors, enjoying the changing colors and cooler temperatures. This simple habit of connecting with nature not only boosts my mood but also reminds me to slow down and appreciate the beauty of the season. It’s become a grounding practice that I look forward to each year.


Reflection Question:

- What seasonal activity can you incorporate into your routine this fall to help you feel more grounded and connected?


Even if you don’t have kids heading back to school, the fall can be a time for your own "new beginning." Use this time to reset your routines, set new goals, and focus on personal growth. Whether it’s learning a new skill, deepening your self-care practices, or organizing your home, the start of the school year can be a powerful motivator for positive change.


Set a "back-to-school" goal for yourself, such as completing a course, reading a book, or decluttering a space in your home. Approach it with the same enthusiasm and commitment that students bring to the new school year.


Last fall, I decided to take a cooking class as my "back-to-school" challenge. It was something I’d always wanted to do but never made time for. Not only did it improve my cooking skills, but it also brought a new sense of creativity and joy into my daily life. It reminded me that it’s never too late to learn and grow.


Reflection Question:

- What is one "back-to-school" goal you can set for yourself this fall, and how will it contribute to your personal growth?


Staying motivated is often the biggest challenge when building new habits. Celebrate your small wins along the way to keep your momentum going. Acknowledge your efforts, no matter how minor they may seem, and remind yourself of the long-term benefits of your new routines.

 Treat yourself to a small reward after completing a week of your new routine, such as a relaxing bath, a favorite snack, or a movie night. These rewards reinforce the positive behavior and make the process enjoyable.


I’ve learned that celebrating small wins is crucial to maintaining motivation. For example, when I successfully stick to completing a goal, I reward myself with a favorite treat or a relaxing evening with a good book. These small rewards make the process enjoyable and remind me of the progress I’m making.


Reflection Question:

- How can you celebrate your small wins to stay motivated on your wellness journey this fall?


By recharging your routine this fall, you're setting the stage for a season of wellness and balance. Remember, the goal is not to create the perfect routine but to build habits that support your well-being and can be sustained over time. As you embrace these new habits, you'll find yourself better equipped to handle the changes and challenges that come with the season.


Take Care, Dear Reader,

Julie

Founder, 

Empower Possible

 

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A Maple Leaf 

By Margaret E. Sangster

So bright in death I used to say,
        So beautiful through frost and cold!
A lovelier thing I know to-day,
        The leaf is growing old,
And wears in grace of duty done,
The gold and scarlet of the sun.

Margaret E. Sangster. "A Maple Leaf." Family Friend Poems, https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/a-maple-leaf-by-margaret-e-sangster

 
 

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  • Mountain 10 Workshop

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  • Benedictine Conference
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Insider Insights: Celebrating Three Years

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