Tuesday, April 2, 2024

April Fool's Day: Insights for Well-Being

 

 

April 2, 2024

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April Fool's Day: Insights for Well-Being

My everyday mantra
 

Dear Empowered Reader


Welcome back to another edition of the Regenerate Newsletter where we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, thank you for your readership!


This week, let's explore a rather unconventional topic with surprising insights - April Fool's Day. I have not always been a fan of April Fool's Day, I am not the one who likes to prank others so often I end up receiving the prank! I know it is all in good fun so I decided to reflect on what April Fool's Day can mean for our well-being. To bring a little perspective into the day I have not learned to appreciate as much as others. Let's begin with the origin of April Fool's Day.


What is April Fool's Day?


April Fools' Day is an "annual holiday that consists of practical jokes, pranks and hoaxes. Pranksters often unmask their joke by yelling a loud and proud "April Fools'!" at their victim. This custom has been observed for hundreds of years."

(Source: Reader's Digest)


The Origin Story:


April Fool's Day, celebrated annually on April 1st, has an uncertain origin. While its precise origins remain unclear, some historians trace it's roots back to the change from the Julian calendar to the Gregorian calendar in the late 16th century. In France, those who failed to recognize the shift and continued to celebrate the New Year during the last week of March through April 1st, they became the subjects of ridicule.  (Source: https://www.history.com/topics/holidays/april-fools-day)


What it Teaches Us: 


Embrace Lightness: 

April Fool's Day reminds us of the importance of embracing lightness in life. In our pursuit of success and ambition, it's easy to get weighed down by stress and seriousness. Allowing ourselves moments of playfulness and laughter can be incredibly rejuvenating for our well-being.


Cultivate Resilience: 

Falling victim to a harmless prank on April Fool's Day teaches us resilience. I know from personal experience! It's a reminder that setbacks and surprises are inevitable in life, but it's our response to them that truly matters. By learning to laugh at ourselves and bounce back from setbacks, we strengthen our resilience muscles.


Build Connection: Engaging in April Fool's Day pranks fosters a sense of camaraderie and connection. It's an opportunity to bond with friends, family, and colleagues through shared laughter and playful banter. Cultivating strong social connections is a cornerstone of well-being, and April Fool's Day provides a fun way to strengthen those bonds. As long as the pranks are harmless!


Well-Being Practices Inspired by April Fool's Day:


Practice Playfulness: Incorporate moments of playfulness into your daily routine. Whether it's telling a joke, playing a harmless prank on a friend, or indulging in a creative hobby, allow yourself to embrace the lighter side of life.


Cultivate Resilience: Approach challenges with a resilient mindset. Instead of viewing setbacks as failures, see them as opportunities for growth and learning. Remember, it's not about avoiding obstacles but rather how we navigate through them.


Prioritize Connection: Make time for meaningful connections with others. Reach out to friends or colleagues and plan a fun activity together. Whether it's a virtual game night or a coffee date, nurturing your social support network is vital for your overall well-being.


A Personal Reflection:


I remember back in college, falling prey to an April Fool's Day prank that my roommates had conspired. As I entered our apartment after a long day of tennis practice and class, I was greeted by a firecracker as I opened the door, which took me by surprise however none of my roommates could be found so I kept walking into the apartment. I first went to the fridge, another firecracker burst, again I was taken by surprise but once again no one was around so I decided to go to the bathroom to wash my face and hands, again firecrackers went off! At this point I didn't know where to turn I went to my room and again firecrackers! At this point, my roommates decided to show themselves as they were laughing so hard they were crying and I stood in my room utterly confused by what was happening. They said they didn't expect me to encounter all the firecrackers, they thought another roommate would stumble upon some of them. However, that is not what happened I set them all off! 


I couldn't believe what happened and was glad the fire alarms didn't get set off. While initially startled, I couldn't help but laugh at their creativity and camaraderie. It was a moment that taught me to appreciate the joy that comes from shared laughter and playful connections, even amidst the chaos of daily life.


Reflection Questions:


Think back to a memorable April Fool's Day prank or moment of laughter in your life. How did it make you feel, and what insights did you gain from the experience?


How can you incorporate more playfulness and humor into your daily routine to enhance your overall well-being?


Consider the relationships in your life. How can you nurture and strengthen those connections through shared laughter and playful interactions?


As we say goodbye to March and welcome in April, let's carry the spirit of April Fool's Day with us. Let's infuse our lives with laughter, resilience, and meaningful connections. Remember, well-being is not just about achieving success in our careers; it's about nurturing our inner selves and living a life filled with joy and fulfillment.


With love and light,

Julie

A blast from the past: Photos of me and my college roommates, the pranksters!

 
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'Jabberwocky'

By Lewis Carroll


’Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
    Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
    And the mome raths outgrabe.

“Beware the Jabberwock, my son!
    The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!
Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun
    The frumious Bandersnatch!”

He took his vorpal sword in hand:
    Long time the manxome foe he sought—
So rested he by the Tumtum tree,
    And stood awhile in thought.

And as in uffish thought he stood,
    The Jabberwock, with eyes of flame,
Came whiffling through the tulgey wood,
    And burbled as it came!

One, two! One, two! And through and through
    The vorpal blade went snicker-snack!
He left it dead, and with its head
    He went galumphing back.

“And hast thou slain the Jabberwock?
    Come to my arms, my beamish boy!
O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!”
    He chortled in his joy.

’Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
    Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.

 
 

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Tuesday, March 19, 2024

Wisdom and insights from Mexico City

 

 

March 19, 2024

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Wisdom and insights from Mexico City

My everyday mantra

Photo: The abbreviation "CDMX" (Ciudad de México) 

 

Dear Empowered Reader,


This week I am excited to share a few insights from my recent journey to the vibrant and bustling Mexico City.  From navigating the maze-like markets to finding moments of serenity amidst the chaos, Mexico City reminded me of so many well-being fundamentals. 


Before you read on, what lessons have you learned from your travels? I would love to know, please share, email me at info@empowerpossible.com.


Well-being Insights


Embrace the Chaos: 


Amidst the hustle and bustle of Mexico City, I learned a valuable lesson in embracing chaos. At first, I was overwhelmed by the intensity of the city. There were noises, smells, and sights that were unfamiliar to me and I was taken aback by it all.  Then we entered the markets. The massive markets within the city were a whirlwind of activity, with vendors bustling and shoppers weaving through the maze of stalls. After a few minutes of trying to center myself, I realized I needed to stop fighting the chaos. Amidst this chaos, there was a beauty in the energy and vitality of the city. Choosing to see chaos as a force of life helped me to feel less anxious about the intense energy I was feeling.


Savor the Moment: 


In a city where everything seems to move at lightning speed, (including the traffic-we were told traffic laws are suggestions not rules so get out of the way of oncoming cars!)  it's essential to pause and savor the moment. Amidst the rush, take a moment to appreciate the good that surrounds you—the laughter of loved ones, the beauty of a sunset, the aroma of street food wafting through the air. Every time I had one of these moments I intentionally took a deep breath in and out to say a silent phrase of gratitude. 


Find Solitude: 


Even in a city of 22 million, finding solitude is possible. We took time out of our trip to find a few local city parks. Mexico City is home to one of the largest and oldest city parks the "Bosque de Chapultepec" (Chapultepec Forest).  I was traveling with my husband, as a couple used to visiting National Parks within the United States during our vacations, making time to visit this city park seemed important. We were glad we did visit the park as it was full of beauty, and a lot less noise.  As we strolled the pathways throughout the park the pace of the city was left behind.  Whether it's escaping to a quiet park or seeking refuge in a tranquil café, carving out time for yourself is essential for well-being. Take a moment to be with your thoughts, reflect, and recharge your spirit.


Appreciate the Beauty:
 


Beauty can be found in the most unexpected places, even in public bathrooms adorned with vibrant artwork. Everywhere I turned in Mexico City I could find beauty. Walking down the street the storefronts were painted with beautiful murals and the flowering trees lined the city streets all added to the experience of beauty in places you might not think you would find it.  In Mexico City, I was reminded to appreciate the beauty that surrounds us, from the grandeur of historical landmarks to the smallest details of everyday life.


Balance is Key:
 


Just as the spices in a salsa necessitate careful balance to achieve the perfect flavor profile, so too does our life demand equilibrium for holistic well-being. During a cooking class in Mexico, I found myself captivated by the culinary lesson on salsa-making. As the instructor expertly demonstrated the art of balancing the spiciness of peppers with the sweetness of tomatoes and the acidity of lime, I couldn't help but draw parallels to the broader concept of balance in life. It dawned on me that just as each ingredient in a salsa contributes to its overall taste, every facet of our lives—work, play, relationships, self-care—must be harmoniously integrated to cultivate a sense of wholeness and fulfillment. This realization served as a reminder that achieving balance is not merely about juggling responsibilities but rather about intentionally crafting a life that nourishes the body, mind, and soul. Just as a well-balanced salsa is the perfect topping to tacos, so too does a harmonious life enrich the spirit, fostering resilience, joy, and a deep sense of contentment.


Reflection Questions:


How can I embrace chaos in my own life and find beauty in the midst of it?


What moments of joy and gratitude can I savor each day, even amidst a busy schedule?


Where can I find moments of solitude and reflection in my environment, no matter how bustling it may be?


As we journey through life, may we embrace the chaos, savor the moments of joy, find solitude amidst the noise, appreciate the beauty around us, and strive for balance in all things. 



Here's to cultivating a life of well-being, one moment at a time.


Take care, dear reader,

Julie

Photo: The Mexican flag in the zócalo (city center) of Mexico City.

 
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Apelación al solitario (Appeal to the Solitary One)

by

Rosario Castellanos

Es necesario, a veces, encontrar compañía.
Amigo, no es posible ni nacer ni morir sino con otro. 

Es bueno que la amistad le quite 

al trabajo esa cara de castigo y a la alegría ese aire ilícito de robo.
¿Cómo podrías estar solo a la hora completa, 

en que las cosas y tú hablan y hablan, hasta el amanecer?
 
It’s necessary, at times, to find company.
My friend, it’s not possible to be born or to die without another. 

It’s good that friendship removes from work the appearance of punishment and from happiness the illicit air of theft.
How could you be alone at that complete hour, in which you talk and talk with things until the dawn?

 
 

In the Media

Where can you find EMPOWER Possible?

Besides posting on my own social media I also collaborate with other entrepreneurs. If you are interested in catching up on our previous podcast episodes. I invite you to explore our library of past recordings, where we delve into a diverse range of topics related to happiness and well-being.

https://empowerpossible.com/podcasts/ 

Photo: My husband and I enjoying dinner at Azul in Mexico City.

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 Duluth, United States


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